epiphany, that is such a funny word, I never thought much of it, never really thought about what it means, until I had one. One nite at work in the poconos, I was walking down the hall to get a cup of coffee. I felt an awareness of myself, I felt confident, stood tall, I was fearless and self assured. I realized that when I walk alone I walk and feel so much different than when I walk with my husband, when walking with him I instinctively feel shorter, less important, not sure of myself, not sure how this happened, I guess it has to do with the whole subservient thing, but I am going to make a conscious effort to always walk like I walk alone, it really felt good to be aware of this.